1. To start and to end and to live in between;
2. There are smalls in bigs, happiness in despair, stillnesses in movements, but there is no exact lining between the two state. It is always a dynamic range;
3. Life is a spectrum, but it is quite hard to see when you are accustomed to black and white only;
4. Someday if I live long enough to reproduce and is able to pass my gene to an offspring (or two), I’ll let them explore their surroundings and use their full senses to see, hear, feel, touch, and process their findings in their own ways. I’ll let them ask many questions out of their mere observations of it. It is fun when we are still curious, when no question is questioned;
5. Challenge your stances, minimize the biases and fallacies you might fall into;
6. See anything as the way they are, put aside pre-existing emotions and prejudices, life is much easier this way;
7. Do not romanticize much, life is much easier this way (2);
8. Learn to handle things solo, if it is not possible, seek help;
9. Firstborn is a firstborn, always;
10. In this economy, literacy is important, specifically financial literacy;
11. Embrace uncertainties, it is the only certainty we have;
12. There are much more things to learn from pain instead of joy;
13. Solitude is bliss, so is companionship;
14. Preference and taste is not debatable. Let people enjoy what they enjoy;
15. Congratulations for liberating yourself;
16. Stacks of stacks of stacks of stacks of privilege;
17. Basic life skills first, professional skills second;
18. People come and go, get used to it;
19. Growing up is hard, settling in is harder;
20. Basically we are born to die.
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